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by Charmosa
Mon Oct 23, 2017 1:33 am
Forum: Ted Talks- be inspired!
Topic: Esther Perel: Desire in a long-term relationship
Replies: 13
Views: 14144

Re: Esther Perel: Desire in a long-term relationship

42:00 desire is always about imagination. Anticipation. How can you continue to desire to travel after 20 years, but not your partner after 20 years?
by Charmosa
Mon Oct 23, 2017 1:20 am
Forum: Ted Talks- be inspired!
Topic: Esther Perel: Desire in a long-term relationship
Replies: 13
Views: 14144

Re: Esther Perel: Desire in a long-term relationship

Holy shit 33, the running commentary I know is getting old but my mind is getting reminded of so many things.
by Charmosa
Mon Oct 23, 2017 1:18 am
Forum: Ted Talks- be inspired!
Topic: Esther Perel: Desire in a long-term relationship
Replies: 13
Views: 14144

Re: Esther Perel: Desire in a long-term relationship

31:00 Wow about the disruption of best friendship.
by Charmosa
Mon Oct 23, 2017 1:13 am
Forum: Ted Talks- be inspired!
Topic: Esther Perel: Desire in a long-term relationship
Replies: 13
Views: 14144

Re: Esther Perel: Desire in a long-term relationship

28:00 Friendship parenting! Fuck yes for segmentation. There is no all-in-one that's also good.
by Charmosa
Mon Oct 23, 2017 1:07 am
Forum: Ted Talks- be inspired!
Topic: Esther Perel: Desire in a long-term relationship
Replies: 13
Views: 14144

Re: Esther Perel: Desire in a long-term relationship

23:00 YEss! Love a man for what he does for you, don't hate him for all the ways he fails as a woman.
by Charmosa
Mon Oct 23, 2017 12:55 am
Forum: Ted Talks- be inspired!
Topic: Esther Perel: Desire in a long-term relationship
Replies: 13
Views: 14144

Re: Esther Perel: Desire in a long-term relationship

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FQ99ACNrJOs
omg 18min mark the Brock Turner references... Tell it Esther!
by Charmosa
Mon Oct 23, 2017 12:08 am
Forum: Ted Talks- be inspired!
Topic: Esther Perel: Desire in a long-term relationship
Replies: 13
Views: 14144

Re: Esther Perel: Desire in a long-term relationship

UPDATE: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4UAg4Axhg6g

ESTHER PEREL: Avoid the most common argument patterns. Listen to it. Listen to it again. Play it on repeat--it's your new favorite song. Never stop trying to figure out to better communicate. That's why language is always changing.
by Charmosa
Thu May 04, 2017 11:58 pm
Forum: Cartoons, & Anime Discussion
Topic: The Last Anime Movie or Series I Watched Was....
Replies: 11
Views: 1383

Re: The Last Anime Movie or Series I Watched Was....

I saw Ponyo today and identified pretty hard with that little fish girl. Very cute movie, great art, and weird as hell. The best kind of anime for me. The little girl eats just like me. It's based on the little mermaid but bears little resemblance to the other cartoon.
by Charmosa
Sun Jan 15, 2017 6:36 am
Forum: Ted Talks- be inspired!
Topic: Graham Hancock - The War on Consciousness BANNED TED TALK
Replies: 2
Views: 290

Re: Graham Hancock - The War on Consciousness BANNED TED TALK

I enjoyed this talk very much, thank you. /tup
by Charmosa
Wed Jan 11, 2017 2:40 am
Forum: Phara's Phorum
Topic: Phara's Salon
Replies: 244
Views: 8171

Re: Phara's Salon

It's tricky, that last part. I think nearly all women have some inner conflict about it. I'm having it right now. I'm putting off this decision for later because time will allow me to... but only for so long. At some point a decision will need to be made. It's tempting for me now to think about moth...
by Charmosa
Sat Dec 31, 2016 1:59 am
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Hi all
Replies: 15
Views: 695

Re: Hi all

Hello! Be seein ya on the boards!
by Charmosa
Sat Dec 31, 2016 12:25 am
Forum: Literature
Topic: Eternal Haiku
Replies: 91
Views: 3292

Re: Eternal Haiku

digital basement
telling the world to byte me
this haiku will rhyme
by Charmosa
Fri Dec 30, 2016 8:54 am
Forum: Phara's Phorum
Topic: Phara's Salon
Replies: 244
Views: 8171

Re: Phara's Salon

oh hai. Whenever I come onto the boards... it's into the Salon that i feel safest posting in. Bizarre right? Ninja might have been one of the first "safe spaces" on the net but it's something about my fellow Ninjess that makes confessing and unleashing a torrent of words just a little bit...
by Charmosa
Wed Dec 21, 2016 4:47 pm
Forum: Art and Editing
Topic: Art Sale from friend Samoht Eel Leachim
Replies: 1
Views: 146

Art Sale from friend Samoht Eel Leachim

My good good friend Samoht is doing a couple amazing things right now. He's quitting drinking, and he's banging out masterpieces on the daily. He's also struggling a bit right now, no phone or anything at the moment. You can buy his art (for way underprice) right now right here: https://www.facebook...
by Charmosa
Tue Dec 13, 2016 2:58 am
Forum: Ted Talks- be inspired!
Topic: Esther Perel: Desire in a long-term relationship
Replies: 13
Views: 14144

Re: Esther Perel: Desire in a long-term relationship

"looking at your partner from a comfortable distance".... desire going up when watching your partner "holding court"... "there's no neediness in desire" i love this and it's been something I struggled with ever since I became romantically active. I wonder if it's a pro...
by Charmosa
Mon Dec 12, 2016 7:10 am
Forum: Ted Talks- be inspired!
Topic: Esther Perel: Desire in a long-term relationship
Replies: 13
Views: 14144

Esther Perel: Desire in a long-term relationship

Take notes whether you are single or committed, this is good stuff. Her other talks are amazing as well. It has helped me understand relationships better and upped my ability to articulate what I knew through experience.

by Charmosa
Wed Dec 07, 2016 5:58 pm
Forum: News & Announcements
Topic: Happy Birthday Phara!!!!
Replies: 17
Views: 781

Re: Happy Birthday Phara!!!!

I had the most epic dream last night with you in it. Phara: Action Hero. Beating up the bad guys with her words and sometimes cane! I will tell you all about it on the phone later :) <333333 Happy Birthday!
by Charmosa
Fri Dec 02, 2016 5:46 pm
Forum: Literature
Topic: "Fear of Succesful People"
Replies: 6
Views: 298

Re: "Fear of Succesful People"

I like this a lot. We get to redefine success to reflect what we actually desire, rather than the image of success that is presented to us, ever out of reach, keeping us dissatisfied with our lives. Be careful who and what you idolize or you may meet the same demise.
by Charmosa
Fri Dec 02, 2016 5:38 pm
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Back2back
Replies: 14
Views: 755

Re: Back2back

Welcome! I'll be checking music and lit for ya :-D
by Charmosa
Fri Dec 02, 2016 5:36 pm
Forum: C&D
Topic: Cultural Appropriation
Replies: 13
Views: 537

Re: Cultural Appropriation

I think the problems a lot of people have with SJW stuff is people throwing around terms like 'microagression' or have people constantly scouring any kind of statement for signs of racism, sexism, gender bias, ableism or any other kind of perceived bias or believe that censorship is fine as long as...
by Charmosa
Wed Nov 23, 2016 3:50 am
Forum: C&D
Topic: Cultural Appropriation
Replies: 13
Views: 537

Re: Cultural Appropriation

Some interesting points Charmosa but how do you expand that beyond the scope of the immigrant American vs. Native American experience? I would say that with my personal sense of morality, it not really cool for members of a conquering group to be making fun or making light of the people it systemat...
by Charmosa
Mon Nov 14, 2016 7:05 am
Forum: C&D
Topic: Cultural Appropriation
Replies: 13
Views: 537

Re: Cultural Appropriation

[11/1/16, 10:04:09 PM] Candee: http://apihtawikosisan.com/hall-of-shame/an-open-letter-to-non-natives-in-headdresses/?subscribe=success#subscribe-blog [11/1/16, 10:04:24 PM] Candee: this is so good - the comments are especially amazing. [11/1/16, 10:05:29 PM] Candee: she seems like one of us [11/1/...
by Charmosa
Sun Oct 30, 2016 12:23 am
Forum: Random
Topic: Subtle brag
Replies: 38
Views: 1716

Re: Subtle brag

moonshine wrote:I got a puppy. His name is Pupper.

I wanna see!
by Charmosa
Sat Oct 29, 2016 12:04 am
Forum: C&D
Topic: The Bernie or Bust Logic
Replies: 35
Views: 1360

Re: The Bernie or Bust Logic

News for any Bernie or Busters looking to vote Stein: http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2016/10/26/jill-stein-s-ideology-says-one-thing-her-investment-portfolio-says-another.html Green Party presidential nominee Jill Stein has largely based her campaign on her uncompromising positions on the env...

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